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Soap Box Derby video

tcr! · Sep 6, 2017 at 8:53 pm

Soap Box Derby video - MP4

You’re welcome.

#videos #soapboxderby

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jimi hindrance experience jimi hindrance experience · Sep 7, 2017 at 9:35 am

thankies! t’o’j to my eye.

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tcr! tcr! · Sep 7, 2017 at 3:24 pm

Back in September 2012 I started to build my own Soap Box Derby car from an old bed frame of Maggie’s and a couple spare ten-speed tires. Sadly this is as far as I got.

my own Soap Box Derby car

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Sunset on Sep 6th, 2017

tcr! · Sep 6, 2017 at 8:48 pm

Sunset on Sep 6th 2017

#photos #sunsets

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There’s always blue skies on the other side, peeps

tcr! · Sep 6, 2017 at 5:21 pm

Theres always blue skies on the other side peeps

#photos #blueskies #clouds

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Bedtime cat

tcr! · Sep 5, 2017 at 11:03 pm

Bedtime cat

#photos #cats

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Sep 5th, 2017 at 9:24:44 pm

tcr! · Sep 5, 2017 at 9:24 pm

“The soul choreographs one’s destiny” .. some fruitcake just said that on NPR. I believe him, too.

#advancedsoul

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Cups for Ketchup

tcr! · Sep 5, 2017 at 7:29 pm

Cups for Ketchup

What kind of parallel/culinary universe have I landed it??

#photos

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Peter Madsen was “tired and exhausted”

tcr! · Sep 5, 2017 at 3:37 pm

Swedish journalist Kim Wall

‘Suicidal’ Danish submarine owner says journalist killed by hatch cover

Wall, a 30-year-old freelance journalist who was researching a story on Madsen, went missing after he took her out to sea in his 17-metre (56-foot) submarine on Aug. 10.

On Aug. 23, police identified a headless female torso that washed ashore in Copenhagen as Wall‘s. The cause of her death has not been determined.

In court, Madsen denied having amputated her limbs and said he dropped her “whole” body into the water, several hours after her death, after having a sleep because he was “tired and exhausted”.

I’ve been following this story since it broke as I’ve always liked submarines and also a classic real-life who-done-its.

First he said he didn’t know what happened to her as he’d drop her off at shore. Now that they’ve found literally only her body, he’s changed his story. But the interesting thing about this latest development is that he said the latch accidentally conked her on the head and left her lying dead in a pool of blood. And then several hours later after his nap he tosses her whole body overboard.

So her dead body’s laying in a puddle of blood not far from where he accidentally killed her. Then he decides to rest because he was “tired and exhausted” before making his next move. Seems reasonable.

#uboats #whodoneit

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Relapse and reservations

tcr! · Sep 4, 2017 at 6:27 pm

Audio (MP3): 20170904 - Relapse and Reservations

Relapse and Reservations

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After I’d been sober for a number of years I relapsed. It wasn’t something that I thought was gonna happen. And also, it didn’t “just happen” either.

So with that being said I feel qualified, I feel confident, I feel like I’m able to talk about relapse overall. I have experience with it.

I didn’t have any deep, dark, dank secrets. I didn’t hold anything back when writing my Fourth Step and I didn’t hold anything back when sharing my Fifth Step. I made all of the amends on my Eighth Step list. I was more spiritual than I’d ever been my whole life.

So why did I relapse?

Because I quit going to meetings. I quit hanging out with people in recovery and hung out instead with “normal” people. that drank like normal people do. We had a lot in common those “normal” ones, similar interests and so on. We could bond over things I couldn’t with people in the meetings.

And really we alcoholics aren’t that much different from them. I’ve known plenty of “normal” people who had resentments, who’d been plagued with fear their whole life, who felt lost and couldn’t find their way.

Anyways with my relapse, somehow I had convinced myself that I was okay, that me drinking was okay. Plain and simple: I’d lost touch with where I’d came from.

And I write this because I hear people talk who say that the reason alcoholics relapse is because they have reservations. And I think it’s bullshit to say that everyone who’s relapsed didn’t work the steps to their full ability.[1] I’ve heard that in meetings.

And further I’ve known people who have relapsed or were in the midst of a relapse who were and still are more spiritual, more kind, more compassionate and caring then those 20+ year sober guys who think they know it all. And obviously something is lacking in their program if they’re up there pounding their fists at the soapbox about a relapse they never had.

Yes, some people do relapse because there’s a secret that they don’t want to tell or they never found the humility or willingness to make a certain amend or whatever. But that’s not fucking everybody.

Okay, obviously I have some emotion behind this but just to be clear, just because you’ve never relapsed that doesn’t mean that you can come along and tell me that I didn’t do something right the first time. Or that you can make some broad assumption, or borderline accusation against everyone who has relapsed.

Be careful with airs of intolerance or ones of arrogance. They’ll get you in trouble. Further, you’re the authority on your recovery, not mine. And further still, my relapse doesn’t discount my previous recovery. It doesn’t wipe the sobriety slate clean or take away the decade plus I was sober. It only makes my recovery now that much better.

And lastly while I’m picking bones… Who cares if I would have been sober for over 25 years if I hadn’t relapsed. I’m not keeping score. Why are you?

#alcoholism #twelvesteps #diariespodcast #diariesvideo


  1. Okay, I concede to the fact that I fell down on Step 12 before I relapsed. Step 10 and 11, too. But not working steps 1-9 to the best of my ability didn’t have anything to do with my relapse.

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jimi hindrance experience jimi hindrance experience · Sep 4, 2017 at 9:11 pm

Because he has enlightenment as his aim, a bodhisattva-mahāsattva is so called.

I still have Walter Becker on my mind but I was very struck by your comments, as usual. “Bodhisattva” is of course a rockin’ lil’ number by Steely Dan.

In other news, I feel like I’ve said these things before. I’m not thinking plagiarism, just that you are so completely in tune with things I’ve thought for a long time.
I am super-qualified on relapse.

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keamoose keamoose · Sep 5, 2017 at 4:29 pm

I don’t expect I’ll ever really understand this, but the way you write about it always just sounds so honest that it makes it more ok for me to talk about the stuff I have issues with.

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tcr! tcr! · Sep 5, 2017 at 5:17 pm

Somewhere in one of my recovery books it says something along the lines of, “when sharing our pain if it helps just one person with their pain then it was worth it.”

I’m happy that my sharing is helping with your sharing 😊

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Facebook conversation with GEICO

tcr! · Sep 4, 2017 at 4:10 pm

Facebook conversation with GEICO about their cat ad

#messaging #geico

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Sep 4th, 2017 at 7:47:06 pm

tcr! · Sep 4, 2017 at 1:42 pm

Cat more interested in my phone than taking a nap

#photos #cats #napsarespiritual

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