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The time is sunny

tcr! · Apr 28, 2019 at 11:55 am

The time is sunny

#photos #timeisirrelevant

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wikiHow to hypnosis someone

tcr! · Apr 28, 2019 at 8:01 am

wikiHow to hypnosis someone

That first sentence though, “It is not very difficult…” πŸ€”

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jimi hindrance experience jimi hindrance experience · Apr 28, 2019 at 3:31 pm

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schimmel · Apr 30, 2019 at 3:29 pm

“if you are a beginner hypnotist then great it is what everyone wants” is gold right there

tcr! tcr! · Apr 30, 2019 at 4:01 pm

Yep, everyone wants a beginner hypnotist.

schimmel · Apr 30, 2019 at 4:12 pm

the lack of punctuation really enhances the deadpan voice i hear this in

tcr! tcr! · May 1, 2019 at 9:50 am

Oh for sure it is what everyone wants.

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Hater McGhray Hater McGhray · Apr 30, 2019 at 4:36 pm

What’s going on at your house?

tcr! tcr! · May 1, 2019 at 9:49 am

I really want hypnotism to be a thing

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Dead Poets on the TV

tcr! · Apr 27, 2019 at 2:09 pm

Dead Poets on the TV

The point is, Charlie … she was thinking about me.

βœ’οΈπŸ““ #photos #deadpoets #tv

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tcr! tcr! · Apr 28, 2019 at 5:29 pm

To be read at the opening of DPS Meetings

To be read at the opening of DPS Meetings

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Redbud snowed in

tcr! · Apr 27, 2019 at 11:47 am

Redbud snowed in

Yeah okay β„οΈπŸ™„ … previously.

#photos #snowdays

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angeline35 angeline35 · Apr 27, 2019 at 12:15 pm

50s here but no snow thank goodness! Loved the post about honesty and speaking your truth :)

tcr! tcr! · Apr 27, 2019 at 2:05 pm

Thank you!! ❀️

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Irene · Apr 27, 2019 at 12:34 pm

See you got what we have alsoπŸ˜”

tcr! tcr! · Apr 27, 2019 at 2:05 pm

It’s stopped now. Thank god. 😊

Irene · Apr 27, 2019 at 2:11 pm

it is sleeting here now. This past week we have a wall along our basement way and I had probably five or six different bunches and different colors of phlox that were in total bloom and they are totally buried under snow now πŸ˜£πŸ˜”

Irene · Apr 28, 2019 at 8:13 am

We had 5 inches of snow yesterday and broke a record low this a.m. for this date of 23°

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elaineorr · Apr 27, 2019 at 4:20 pm

Your plants!

tcr! tcr! · Apr 28, 2019 at 6:58 am

Yep. I knew I shouldn’t have planted grass seed.

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Two artsy photos from Gaetano’s in Batavia

tcr! · Apr 26, 2019 at 7:24 pm

Cucumber in water glass
Cucumber in water glass

Hanging purple candle
Hanging purple candle

gaetanosbatavia.com →

#photos #artgoods

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Redbud budding bodaciously

tcr! · Apr 26, 2019 at 5:29 pm

Redbud budding bodaciously

Even though it’s supposed to snow in Chicagoland tomorrow, that doesn’t mean we can’t “yay spring” today. Happy Friday, perps!

Update: we got the snow.

#photos #naturerocks

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fiatlux423 · Apr 26, 2019 at 5:45 pm

Today was great

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Irene · Apr 26, 2019 at 6:38 pm

We are supposed to get 3 to 7 in of snow tomorrow… What about you?

tcr! tcr! · Apr 27, 2019 at 8:42 am

I can’t bare to look.

Irene · Apr 27, 2019 at 8:46 am

I know. Now they’re saying 4 to 8 for us. Ugh!

Irene · Apr 27, 2019 at 9:11 am

The rain has turned over to a mixture now. Sorry just thought I’d share :-)

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7-Eleven toothbrush

tcr! · Apr 26, 2019 at 3:39 pm

7 Eleven toothbrush

I just bought a toothbrush at 7-Eleven because I can’t go see the doctor without one.

🀐 #photos #healthnews

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The direct communication formula

tcr! · Apr 26, 2019 at 9:00 am

Driving to work this morning I was letting my minder wander, just absentmindedly thinking about stuff. As I do. And today I was thinking that I used to drop a lot of hints. Boxes of styrofoam peanuts without anything tangible inside.

I’m going to go out on a limb here: dropping hints doesn’t work. After decades of experimentation I finally gave up. Believe me, I tried and tried to get people to read between the lines. And then more often than not I was only left wrongfully hurt because they couldn’t figure out what I was saying or what I was after.

Me with poofy hair, circa December 2000
Me with poofy hair, circa December 2000

I’m going to go out on another limb: being clear, concise, and direct in asking for what I want does work. Doing that removes any ambiguity. The other person just knows what I’m saying without having to do any guesswork.

And that’s how you both win. ❀️

Because people love candidness. People love confidence. People love honesty.

I’m not saying that being direct is easy for someone like me. I’m not naturally assertive. But when I walk a spiritual path it all becomes easier. Because I do deserve nice things regardless of what my dysfunctional parts tell me. The hardest part is just figuring out what I do actually want.

Wait. There’s more.

The real beauty of this direct communication formula is that when other people clearly tell me what they want I, too, can listen and give them those very things. I don’t have to solve any riddles.

And that’s how you both win again. ❀️

It does take some legwork on my end to figure out how I’m going to give someone what their heart desires but really it’s not that hard. I just pay attention to what people say and then let the cosmos show me how. Let the heavens guide my words, my hands, and my heart.

And all of this coming from a non-talking, non-feeling, non-trusting nutcase. πŸ˜‰

#relationships #nicethings

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Mitchell · Apr 26, 2019 at 11:00 pm

I’m laughing cuz it’s an old photo

tcr! tcr! · Apr 27, 2019 at 8:45 am

All good 😊

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Dano · Apr 29, 2019 at 8:40 pm

Couldn’t agree more. πŸ™πŸ»

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Axe Throwing sign

tcr! · Apr 25, 2019 at 8:01 pm

Axe Throwing sign

Previously.

#photos #goteam

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tcr! tcr! · Apr 26, 2019 at 10:49 am

Holy smokes! I never thought about a potential bounce back!

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jenkins_arts · Apr 27, 2019 at 7:29 am

What possibly could go wrong!?!

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Caprese salad and beautiful girl

tcr! · Apr 25, 2019 at 7:21 pm

Sara in St Charles Caprese plum salad

πŸ’ #photos #sara

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Momma J Momma J · Apr 25, 2019 at 8:00 pm

What is in your salad?

sara sara · Apr 25, 2019 at 8:38 pm

Balsamic infused plum on fresh mozzarella topped with mint and pine nuts.

Momma J Momma J · Apr 25, 2019 at 9:24 pm

Sounds delicious!

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prokop · Apr 25, 2019 at 9:27 pm

Yum.

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