Murder…..🤷‍♀️

I’m not sure, but I’m positive justified anger is appropriate here!

First, talk to your financial advisor, BUT You still have the 401k and you can still contribute to it. Your employer does not have to contribute. You may need to convert the existing 401K into an IRA…
Talk to a financial adviser!

This should not be something to be angry about… just a change in how you make contributions to your retirement…

Yeah, I kinda feel it’s like giving somebody a raise and then taking it back a couple of years later.

well, a raise is just that.. a raise. A contribution to a benefit package is completely separate, granted it is monetary in nature…

Um. Why not?.

Yeah anger is a normal response to this.

Benefits are part of your pay package.

Wow that’s horrible

Tell him that you totally understand a 401K is a luxury that most employers don’t offer anymore. Tell him too, that most employers do offer salaried employees heath insurance and you’d be willing to accept that in exchange for your 401K benefits.

Ask for a raise so you can contribute to an IRA.

What you have contributed to it remains yours as does the contributions an employer has made up to the point they stopped contributing. That’s my understanding.

Unless employer contributions are tied to a vesting schedule

I agree. Thanks Mona, hope you are well!

There are many legitimate reactions to this. Mine would be to start looking for another job.

Yep

You’ve given the balance of your fucks away before noon!!!!

I know!! I’ll always keep a reserve though. Because there are some days when everything is exaggeratedly terrible.

You so smart. :-)

So if you gave a “fuck that” for each thing in your morning to emulate that you had zero fucks to give…..did you really give zero fucks? I feel like this needs a mathematical theory written about it.

Yep. I can’t say “zero fucks given” though, that’s somebody else’s mantra. But yeah, your equations line up.

Omg can so relate just one of them days is how I look at it

Is “Fuck that” a prayer? I want to think a sponsor told me that but maybe…… i just wish a sponsor told me that.

It’s definitely a prayer. A “letting go” kinda prayer generally reserved for cloudy days.

Ok I’m running with that!!!!

Wha??

I know!!

Looks tasty!

Wait!! I’mma finish dinner real quick and head over for 2nd dinner!! 😋🤤

I got two silver dollars left but ya gotta make your own eggs 🍳😊

Changed my mind, there’s unexpected chocolate pudding here now!! 😆❤️

Ask Eorr about potato pancakes. She’ll learn ya’. Serious.

Potato pancakes 🤔 tell me more! (Mitchell)

Yum! Looks good enough to eat

I’m more impressed by the perfect over medium egg!

If that’s cherry flavored, I would have a full out melt down, right now.

That’s nice of him; you’d hate to show up and find that all the devils are taken.

I know! With only 7 princes there aren’t that many to go around.

Will you do the Fandango?

Who doesn’t know every word to that song?

I had to look up the Beelzebub line just to be sure I had it right 😊

For even more wholesome Queen, try “Tie Your Mother Down”. :)

Chuck Grassely isn’t 85 years old. He’s One Hundred Eighty Five years old. He fought in the Civil fucking war.

You express yourself so well - it’s a gift you have!

I’d like to take credit for my expression but then I’d be running for office of Presidente.

Wow! Really like that!

Thanks! I like it, too. Keeps me on the beam and all that. 😊

Remember your ego is not your amigo. 🌮

Haha! Nope 😊